I’m going to explain to you how I cured my dog, Duke’s, anxiety.
Curing his anxiety meant being able to take him on walks without trouble, car rides without panting, getting his nails clipped without worrying about him biting, destructive behavior, stopping worrying about him crying in his crate, and countless other benefits.
But first, it might be helpful for you to understand exactly what anxiety is. And it isn’t as simple as you’d think!
We’ve all felt anxiety (human and dog) at some point in our lives. When you’re anxious you may have a racing heart, tense muscles, and be so jumpy that you’ll react disproportionally to minor events. On an emotional level, anxiety is basically fear of things that have not yet happened.
But on a physical level, anxiety is essentially the nervous system stuck in “fight or flight” mode instead of “rest and digest” mode. It is a miserable, exhausting mode to be stuck in. It can cause digestive issues and a shortened lifespan because you never get to fully “rest and digest.”
For me, curing Duke’s anxiety was incredibly important. I want him to be with me for a long time, with a high quality of life.
My dog, Duke, was just a naturally energetic, anxious dog. As a pitbull-border collie mix rescued from a shelter, I think it is to be expected that he would have at least a few emotional hang-ups, such as separation anxiety.
See, Duke’s anxiety made him act like a ‘bad dog.’ For instance, no groomer could handle him, which was getting really bad for his mobility because his nails were growing out long like a witch’s nails.
I had to take him to the vet for them to try to clip his nails. The vet was totally confident that she’d be able to, but when I went to pick him up they told me that 1. Duke tried to bite them out of fear. 2. Duke peed himself out of fear. And 3. He pooped out of fear!
Needless to say, they did not clip his nails.
I know this sounds funny (and I’ll admit it is kind of funny), but if you put yourself in my shoes, you’ll also understand that Duke’s anxiety was not only a serious problem for me but for Duke himself!
It isn’t like I didn’t try to help him with his anxiety either.
I took him to dog trainers and dog training classes. I watched videos on dog training and used the techniques they discussed. I also tried to give him enough exercise to tire him out (which is pretty much impossible for a pitbull-border collie mix, but I tried!)
I gave him ‘calming treats’ and supplements, but they either didn’t seem to have an effect or (in the case of melatonin, in particular) made him worse.
As much as possible, I’d bring him with me when I went places so he wouldn’t be alone and anxious. But the problem was that he couldn’t be calm even on a leash. He’d pull like it was his job, ‘herd’ me, lunge at any living thing we passed (bike riders, children, cats–you name it), and get so hyped up that he wouldn't even take a treat out of my hand.
Dog parks were absolutely out of the question.
Other people who have had anxious dogs will understand: that dealing with an anxious dog is not just a matter of training, love, and attention! There would probably be next to no anxious dogs if that were the case. No one tries harder for their dogs than owners of anxious dogs.
When Duke was left alone, he’d be destructive, no matter how many chew toys I got him. If I left him in his crate, he’d scream so that the neighbors complained and chew so hard at the gate that he’d make his mouth bleed.
No one wants to see their dog suffering like that. No one wants to disturb their neighbors or get their own stuff ripped apart by their dog.
It was do or die. At the very least, I needed to get Duke’s nails clipped.
Once again (not for the first time) I tried to clip Duke’s nails myself. Of course, that was a no-go. He struggled and tried to bite me.
I turned to the internet to read the reviews of all the groomers in my area, and then I started calling them. One by one, when I explained the situation to the groomers, the groomers told me that they don’t take dogs like Duke.
The whole situation was giving me as much anxiety as Duke had!
Finally, I called a groomer called CeeCee. CeeCee’s website didn’t have much on it, and looked like it was built about a thousand years ago, but she had great reviews from people saying she was able to groom their reactive dogs when no one else could.
CeeCee answered the phone herself and was very understanding–letting me book an appointment in a slot that someone had canceled.
When I dropped Duke off, I was still skeptical. All I could do was cross my fingers and pray.
Hours passed, and I kept expecting CeeCee to call and say, “Sorry, actually, he’s too much to handle. Please pick up your bad dog.”
When my phone finally rang, I practically sweated bullets when I answered.
“How was he?” I tentatively asked.
“He was fine, you can pick him up now,” was all CeeCee would say.
When I walked into the grooming salon to pick up Duke I was shocked by how he danced out to greet me, not frantic, but calm, with his toenails cut to less than half the length.
“Holy guacamole!” I exclaimed as I tried to get Duke to stop his enthusiastic greeting of me. “How did you manage to clip his nails when no one else could?”
Ceecee gave me a secretive little smile. “To tell the truth,” she said. “He wasn’t the most cooperative, but I was able to make it work because of my secret weapon:
Relievet
Calming Chews.”
“Relievet Calming Chews?” I asked. “I’ve never heard of those.”
“Relievet Calming Chews is the only calming dog treat I’ve found to work for all the dogs who’s nails I clip. It helps calm them in about twenty minutes, and they all love the taste.”
I thanked her and vowed to research Relievet's Calming Chews more when I got home.
What I found blew me away.
It turned out that
Relievet
Calming Chews was developing a cult following online. There were hundreds of 5-star reviews.
Here are a few of them:
Sure the reviews were great, and sure CeeCee managed to clip Duke’s claws thanks to them, but I wasn’t born yesterday. Maybe the reviews were fake and maybe CeeCee just had a special knack with dogs.
I needed to do more research. After spending as much money on Duke as I already did, I couldn’t afford to pay money for something that wouldn’t help.
Looking into the ingredients, I could see why they would help.
Essentially, taken together, the ingredients would pull Duke out of his “fight or flight mode” and push him into the calm nervous system mode I mentioned earlier of “rest and digest.”
Here is a short explanation of the ingredients:
You’ve probably heard of ashwagandha. Ashwagandha – try saying that five times fast – is like the veteran actor of the herbal world, known for its stress-busting chops since the dawn of time. It’s the herb that looks stress in the eye and says, “Not today, pal.” Then we’ve got Chamomile, the same stuff in your grandma’s bedtime tea, working its magic on our four-legged friends, whispering, “Chill out, buddy,” in the gentlest of herbal tones.
And who could forget Tryptophan? Yes, the same stuff that's blamed for your Thanksgiving food coma is also a secret weapon in calming down our canine pals. It’s like the body’s natural chill pill, converting into serotonin and melatonin to dial down the anxiety and up the Zs. It is better than melatonin itself because it converts to these hormones at a more natural rate and doesn’t have the risk of a “melatonin hangover” which is what Duke may have experienced before when the melatonin seemed to make him worse.
Then there's Valerian Root, stepping in like a sleep guru for pups, ensuring they're not just chasing sheep in their dreams but actually snoozing soundly.
Other ingredients include Thiamine B1, Inositol, and Ginger. Three ingredients that work together to encourage “rest and digest” much more than, “fight or flight.”
But here’s the kicker and what started to convince me. According to
Relievet
, it is not just about tossing these ingredients into the mix and hoping for the best. It's about the how, the proportions, and the delicate dance they do together that makes Relievet's Calming Chews the effective. Like each part works with the other to bring on a full calming effect, hitting every part of the body’s calming system.
It's like a meticulously crafted recipe where every ingredient balances the others. It isn’t a one-herb wonder; it’s a finely tuned ensemble, each element playing off the others to hit the sweet spot of calm, hitting every part of the “flight or flight” nervous system to kick the body into a lower, less anxious gear.
Truthfully, what really sold me was the money-back guarantee.
I’d have nothing to lose if I bought the Relievet's Calming Chews and they didn’t work. I could always get my refund.
Ordering was easy. They arrived a few days later. The packaging was really nice too. The moment I held the jar in my hand, I knew I’d be cleaning it out and saving it to help organize my sewing supplies.
But would Duke eat them? Would they calm him?
I looked at the usage recommendations on the package and didn’t hesitate. And Duke didn’t hesitate on eating them either! He clearly thought they were tasty and wanted some more, wagging his tail like crazy and nosing at me.
Now, all I had to do was wait.
About an hour later, Duke was laying peacefully on the floor, taking a nap. But that wasn’t that odd for Duke. He is a dog after all and dogs do nap anyway!
To give the Relievet Calming Chews a real test, I decided to take him on a walk and see if he acted any differently. I hooked on his leash and headed out the door, expecting Duke to pull my arm out of its socket as usual.
But that’s not what happened!
Yes, Duke still pulled, but this time, for once, he came back to my side when I reprimanded him. He wasn’t so crazy focused on everything else that he couldn’t focus on me, he was even calm enough to take a treat out of my hand.
He was far from perfect, but the
Relievet
Calming Chews achieved something that nothing else had: progress!
They calmed him down enough that all my hard work and training with him could finally start to sink in. I could cry out of gratitude and relief.
For the next few weeks, I kept giving him the Relievet Calming Chews, and he kept improving his behavior. He stopped being so destructive and limited his ripping apart of things to his own toys and bones.
He stopped pulling so crazily on walks (except when he saw a cat!)
He stopped his panting and pacing around the house.
He was way more relaxed during car rides.
And perhaps best of all, his separation anxiety started dissipating as if he were always just a good boy who was fine with being alone.
And it is all thanks to
Relievet
Calming Chews.
I put the Relievet's Calming Chews on subscription after my first order for a couple of reasons:
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So I wouldn’t forget to re-order and
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Because putting them on subscription means good savings (plus you can cancel your subscription anytime.)
If you decide to buy Relievet's Calming Chews for your own dog, I recommend you do the same.
Anyway, thanks for reaching about me and Duke! You can click the link below to get up to 50% off Relievet's Calming Chews if you’re ready to try something to help your dog feel calmer.